Why Are So Many Women Desperate to Feel Tight? Let’s not pretend. In almost every culture especially in Nigeria, women are praised for having a “tight” vagina. From conversations in hostels and beauty salons to aunties giving you womanhood secrets, there’s this obsession with being tight. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: Many of the things…
How tight is a vagina supposed to be? Or better still, how tight would you want yours to be? It’s one of those questions we all hear in whispers, jokes or casual conversations but never really stop to explore with depth or care. Yet, for some women this question isn’t hypothetical at all, for some…
Let’s be real, you are too young to be dealing with weak, unreliable erections in your 30s. If your soldier is struggling to stand at attention, something is off. You might think, “It’s just stress” or “maybe I need more rest” but deep down, you know something’s changed and ignoring it won’t fix it. If…
Refractory period or the “down time” after you release—is a natural part of the male sexual cycle and can be understood as a reset mechanism. The refractory period is a natural physiological phase that occurs after a man ejaculates, marking a temporary halt to sexual arousal and activity. This period is a fascinating biological process that speaks volumes…
Sex toys are no longer hidden in the back of closets or limited to hushed conversations. Today, they’ve become a gateway to self-discovery and an essential part of exploring sexual wellness. But beyond the obvious physical pleasures, each toy you choose speaks volumes about your underlying desires and fantasies, often revealing layers of your personality…
Let’s talk about something that often gets overlooked: the moments after the heat of the moment, those sweet, cozy minutes right after sex. Believe it or not, what you say (or don’t say) in those moments can make a huge difference in your connection and even overall sexual satisfaction. Don’t be the one who’d pick…
“With God, all things are possible,” Pastor Ezekiel always told his wife, Funmi, even through the toughest moments of her cancer treatment. After months of radiotherapy, Funmi was declared cancer-free. Hallelujah followed from every corner of the church. Funmi and Pastor Ezekiel had faced their toughest storm—cancer. After months of radiotherapy, Funmi was declared cancer-free,…
Ada had always dreamed of becoming a bikini model. Her curves were the kind that could make people say, “Na wah! God really took His time with you.” But beneath her glowing skin and confident walk, Ada carried a heavy secret—an untreated vaginal infection that had turned her dream into a nightmare. Every time she…
When Ada’s roommate, Kemi, caught herpes from her ‘sweetheart’ who turned out to be a community boyfriend, Ada knew she had to be sharp. As the elders say, ‘When your neighbor’s beard catches fire, wet your own.’ So when her admirer, Kunle, started showing interest, Ada told him, ‘No test, no show.’ Kunle tried forming…
Libido or sex drive plays a crucial role in our overall well-being, influencing not just our intimate relationships, but also our mental and emotional health. However, it’s common for libido to fluctuate due to various factors like stress, aging, lifestyle choices or health issues. If you’re experiencing a dip in your sex drive, know that…