Most ladies have never truly hit the big ‘O’ with a man before, let’s be real right now.

But this does not mean the act was bad; the entire moment went well, it was everything they and their partner wanted it to be, they enjoyed the moment with their man but you see that peak where they just lose it for a moment, their legs begin to shake and their vagina squeezes, they have never reached that point while doing it with a man before.

Infact, based on statistics, 70% of women have never experienced orgasm during penetrative sex. So, what is going on?

When it comes to women, it takes more than the in and out movement of a penis inside the vagina to make her reach the big O.

Women need to be properly stimulated for them to hit that point, that is why when ladies play with themselves alone, you see most of them reach climax under 5-8minutes.

Why is this so? Because she is targeting her pleasure spots that doesn’t get sufficiently stimulated during penetrative sex.

So how can men also target this spots so she can also hit the peak with him? First of, know these sweet spots and the sweet spots in a woman is her clitoris and her G-spot.

The clitoris is outside the body and as such is easier to stimulate, so while thrusting her during sex use a clitoral vibrator on that area to stimulate her and give her climax in no time or in the absence of a clitoral toy, rub your finger on her clitoris as this is also a great way to stimulate her.

For the G spot which is inside a woman’s body, a man can aim to stimulate this spot by lifting his penis upwards to her belly button when he’s inside of her and repeating this for a while and then the sensation begins to build.

He can also aim for the G spot by putting pressure on her lower abdomen so as to stimulate that region.